Friday, August 1, 2008

***Friendship*** and ***Love***

Friendship is also considered as a complicated topic beside of love.

Actualy to built a friendship is easy, but how to let the friendship last long is the most harder and harder.....

People always say love is actualy like four seasons, when you are begin to fall in love, it really like spring, so enjoy, sweet, and make people happy.. When come to a few months, it will automatically change to summer, that love begins by adding some really exciting elements like having a more closer reaction and the chemical reaction is so strong and reactive....Unfortunetly, summer won't stay long, then the relationship will get into autumn...their passion begin to get lower and lower and lower....until the end, comes to winter.........................relationship begin cold down, but some of the couple still can handle it smartly until they are old....

Then how about friendship????? Actually what is friends?? A person who we can seat together and chatting togather, is that call friends?? No!!!! That one only can call your communication partner. What the meaning of a friend? A friends is a target for us to share everything we happy or unhappy, everything we like or dislike. Sharing, is a real mean of friends. Some of the friends like to perli each other without care or respect other people's feel, some of the friends will always forget their friends...I believe all of this kind of things happens in you and me. So how to find a real friendship?? Is it hard?? Ya, I think so. A real friends no need too much, but if much, then you have to make sure all of your friends are a real friends...Luckily I got real friends, a friends who really know me very much and I really very appreciate all of them, honostly, I can tell you my best and real friend have only three, they are always heard my feelings, sharing with me the happy and unhappy things. Of course those I didn't mention that doesn't mean that they are not my friends. Ya, they also my friends, I will also put a lot of effort to make our friendship last long... Just I want to say is everyone surely have your own really best friends... That's different between best friends and friends........Lastly, no matter friends or best friends, all we also have to put a lot of effort to make it last long... Be smart, all my friends!!!!!

And for not least, a word to those who gained a love and friendship - " Try to find a balance between love and friendship, if not I can tell you that you will become a loser of your life, because both of them is a kind of relationship between people and people, we have to focus on both also, not only just focus on one only, remembered it.....Ah, and also family, that's what I will post on next time......."

2 comments:

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den said...

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